I ran into a previous thread I once created back in the days, "7 reasons ladies act the way they do."
I ran into a previous thread I once created back in the days, "7 reasons ladies act the way they do."
I think it's high time I created something on the opposite.
Some ladies usually see negative in any thing their guy does for them. They read meanings, jump into conclusions and act with little outdated information as to Why Guys Act They Way They Do. I hope as you carefully ponder on this thread, may you find what you are looking for.
1. When he just goes quiet and doesn't want to talk:
Sometimes, ladies judge him to be harbouring some evil plan but Hey No! It could be an unfulfilled dream bugging his mind. Unfortunately, he can't discuss with you because either you might not understand or get worried/upset. Other times, you never saw that melancholic part of him; you are now discovering. Don't compare to this or that, stop already! That emotional manipulation/blackmail is one of the reasons your relationship is still where it is; You don't know what a man really want. It's beyond facial appearance dearie.
2. That moment when he starts acting all suspicious
The truth is, he loves and wants a deeper level of commitment from you. Even though in its excess, it ain't so fair. Love sometimes is intrinsic in jealousy and suspicion. Even you won't feel loved if he ain't jealous sometimes.
3. Times when he wouldn't say "Hi" to you first online
I stand to be corrected; It's a common notion that an average lady is not loyal to one guy, especially in a distance relationship or over the internet. Don't get it twisted, he wants to sort of know if you really prize him above the other guys in your radar. Does she still care? All these, "I'm fin n u", no longer add up. Be real. A guy who just wants you for your body don't give two rats about that; he forces his way into you. If a guy truly loves you, he gives you the freedom to make a decision of whom to date, whom to choose. Love creates a free environment.
4. When he flirts with other girls.
This sounds contradictory but it happens.
Flirting is the food ladies eat. It's like protein: it makes them grow. Flirting doesn't necessarily mean he wants to date them, it's just part of his playing nature. Don't get offended at that. Know your man. Know his Achilles heels. Be there to tame that dragon when the need arises. Be his guardian angel.
5. When he wants you to visit and it isn't comfortable for you.
It's not all about sexx. Sometimes, he's going through advances from other girls too and he wants to feel like he has some loyal bae. For some girls, that's when they'll start acting up, forgetting love is sacrificial and mutual in nature. When you visit him, cook. Wash his clothes, if you have to. All these tell him, you care. Don't leave the house dirtier than you met it. Let your presence add to him, not subtract from him, if you know what I mean.
6. When he turns a blind eye to that need of yours.
Sometimes, ladies are quick to spot when their boyfriend was being stingy. It's not always so. Many a time, he was broke too and battling to meet the need of a sibling. A guy just came into your life, you won't allow him breathe before turning him to your deputy-dad. Haba!
Let courtesy be observed in everything. He may not have excess cash now. Forget those love movies you watch, reality is a far cry from where they are. Face realities, that's where a true husband material is domiciled. That's where lasting money really is.
I think it's high time I created something on the opposite.
Some ladies usually see negative in any thing their guy does for them. They read meanings, jump into conclusions and act with little outdated information as to Why Guys Act They Way They Do. I hope as you carefully ponder on this thread, may you find what you are looking for.
1. When he just goes quiet and doesn't want to talk:
Sometimes, ladies judge him to be harbouring some evil plan but Hey No! It could be an unfulfilled dream bugging his mind. Unfortunately, he can't discuss with you because either you might not understand or get worried/upset. Other times, you never saw that melancholic part of him; you are now discovering. Don't compare to this or that, stop already! That emotional manipulation/blackmail is one of the reasons your relationship is still where it is; You don't know what a man really want. It's beyond facial appearance dearie.
2. That moment when he starts acting all suspicious
The truth is, he loves and wants a deeper level of commitment from you. Even though in its excess, it ain't so fair. Love sometimes is intrinsic in jealousy and suspicion. Even you won't feel loved if he ain't jealous sometimes.
3. Times when he wouldn't say "Hi" to you first online
I stand to be corrected; It's a common notion that an average lady is not loyal to one guy, especially in a distance relationship or over the internet. Don't get it twisted, he wants to sort of know if you really prize him above the other guys in your radar. Does she still care? All these, "I'm fin n u", no longer add up. Be real. A guy who just wants you for your body don't give two rats about that; he forces his way into you. If a guy truly loves you, he gives you the freedom to make a decision of whom to date, whom to choose. Love creates a free environment.
4. When he flirts with other girls.
This sounds contradictory but it happens.
Flirting is the food ladies eat. It's like protein: it makes them grow. Flirting doesn't necessarily mean he wants to date them, it's just part of his playing nature. Don't get offended at that. Know your man. Know his Achilles heels. Be there to tame that dragon when the need arises. Be his guardian angel.
5. When he wants you to visit and it isn't comfortable for you.
It's not all about sexx. Sometimes, he's going through advances from other girls too and he wants to feel like he has some loyal bae. For some girls, that's when they'll start acting up, forgetting love is sacrificial and mutual in nature. When you visit him, cook. Wash his clothes, if you have to. All these tell him, you care. Don't leave the house dirtier than you met it. Let your presence add to him, not subtract from him, if you know what I mean.
6. When he turns a blind eye to that need of yours.
Sometimes, ladies are quick to spot when their boyfriend was being stingy. It's not always so. Many a time, he was broke too and battling to meet the need of a sibling. A guy just came into your life, you won't allow him breathe before turning him to your deputy-dad. Haba!
Let courtesy be observed in everything. He may not have excess cash now. Forget those love movies you watch, reality is a far cry from where they are. Face realities, that's where a true husband material is domiciled. That's where lasting money really is.
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